Beautiful Inside

Last night very beautiful women claim men should consider more their beautiful inside rather than their physical's. That claim vexed me 'cause I didn't know what to reply, without offending them with a sexist answer. Now I think the point was no what they thought it was beautiful inside but wha I think it is beautiful inside. It would be weird to think that way, but I consider it's not. I would expect beautiful inside to be, e.g, phone back, stroke my hair, or to value me instead of judging me. In fact, we men and women should come to an agreement on what means to both of us "beautiful inside".